I'm going to weigh in here, I chat across several rooms and see the shit going on in them so I feel well qualified to add comment. Let me preface this firstly by saying, I don't wish to offend and if your nose does get outta joint, sorry but not sorry.
In the legal sense PapaWolf pays for the privilege of owning and operating OpenMinded in any manner he sees fit to. It is no different to driving a car on the freeway, he owns the vehicle and all contained within it's chasis. If you are requested to pipe down and belt up, you do so or exit the vehicle. Outside of the vehicle is the driving laws of that State/Country etc. When you registered an account on Buzzen you agreed to abide by their rules the same way a vehicle driver agrees to abide by the road/driving rules also. You in the role of passenger, agree to abide by the rules set out by the driver, et al. Still following?
Buzzen isn't a democracy, why would you feel it is? Nobody "votes" the owner into the position and He/Jay laid down the rules because he pays for it and gets to say so. PapaWolf has paid his BSR so he gets to lay down the rules of His room, last time I looked, he wasn't voted in, therefore it is NOT a democracy either. He appoints his Staff to uphold the rules of His room, He has determined that the Host Staff he chose have the skills and attributes required and it's as simple and cut throat as that.
He doesn't have to justify and validate why He allows some chatters in and others are banned. Moreover, He is under no obligation to provide the room for you to chat in, He does so because frankly, He had the coin and you did not.
You can chat elsewhere, nobody requires your presence in OM.
Hope all who read this followed my oversimplification but, in truth it is what it is.
When in doubt, iggy is your friend.....End of.