ts been a rough go this past week or so.
Father in law had to go back to the hospital, we had to call the EMTs Sunday,he was having respiratory issues. We thought all was well and they sent him home that afternoon. Turned right around and had to call the EMTs again Wednesday am,back he went and at this time is in CCU with pneumonia. It's not easy watching a loved one go thru constant battles,and he has his plate full. We are all tired. And I am not the only one dealing with family issues, I think some forget in chat that no matter how much we try and keep chat separated from life,it tends to flow over.one to the other.
We are human we make mistakes, life might be kicking us in the ass and for some chat is a escape from the bullshit they might be dealing with. I am running on very little sleep and not in real good humor at this time.
It just is what it is.
I have spoken to those who have been taking care of the room in my absence. I have been informed bans have been lifted.
I will leave it that..................with this one thought.
No matter whether your a host or a chatter, before you jump to assumptions about either,try to remember you probably do not have any clue what that person might be going thru in their life. Cut them some slack................if you find that you just cannot get along with them in chat.....use ignore.....it really makes it easier on all concerned.
No one likes to kick and ban but sometimes we get tired of the constant arguing and bickering between chatters or those who seem to take issue with certain host/managers. If you just cannot handle the idea of a hosted chat room then maybe you should find a room that does not have a host. We are doing our best to try and accommodate all concerned. We are constantly working towards making OM a better chatroom. Still a work in progress and no matter how much we try there will always be someone who will not be happy with whatever changes we make.
Enjoy your upcoming weekend.
