Many of you have known me for several years, I remain (or try to remain) the same person I know that I am.
Holding a hammer in the room doesn't make me any different than anyone, if I abuse my hammer it would be removed from me no questions asked. Why, because we strive to be fair, logical, and great hosts, this is because we have upper management that set that example for us.
While I am in chat, I love to have fun, flirt (if I most), share of my personal stories at times, empathize with some of the chatters, just be there, I don't come in with the sole idea to kick or ban anyone in any given day, that is too much waste of my good energy.
Having said that, when I do kick anyone, I do it knowing that if I do it wrongly it can and will affect me as a host, chatter and person, because I have no ill for anyone, specially those I don't even know in person. I am about my person first, I owe it to myself to be the best I can be for me first, for my family, my very dear friends which include some of my chat friends.
Life is too short to complain about the things that are already done, about the things we can't change. Instead life does give us the opportunity to become better than yesterday, better than before, today is the day to make the change for ourselves so that we may impact the past we may have messed up.
Lastly, I am very approachable, I am not above anyone, my whispers are always open if there is anything that needs to be discussed. I am not above reproach, and I love a good constructive criticism because I always want to become a better Eclissi than I was yesterday.
Much love always,
Eclissi