susie101, did you actually read what the moderator said? Your analogy makes no sense.
Would you walk into a person's home and begin re-arranging the furniture, tell them how to live, correct their children?
Rules are rules and if a Sysop came into a chat room you owned, and started barking out orders, you'd go elsewhere.
I've hosted, but never moderated for Buzzen if it was a paying job, I still wouldn't do it.
These people put up with abuse no one else would tolerate, they help whenever its possible, and then they have to explain the simplest rule repeatedly.
Do you have an idea how many times this subject had been addressed?
Take the ban, go clean a closet, read a book, go for a walk.
Oh and one more thing, since I have taken over this post, you can always close your whispers.
To the people of Buzzen, I'm sorry I hijacked this post.
Have a nice day!