Hard 2 Handle,
Perhaps you should have inquired as to why you were banned before laying the blame at Tricia's feet. I. not Tricia, contacted the room owner and reported what you said to Tricia, repeatedly.
Everyone in the room, including myself argues with other chatters, we can and do type some awful things at times, myself included, but there comes a point when enough is enough. How many times did you need to be told to stop, and you refused.
Instead of laying the blame somewhere else, you should have owned it, thought about what you had said to her and apologized.