Sounds like a true gentleman , NOT!

i thought the slaves of homes in general weren't supposed to do private conversations with people not of the home, or those not known and trusted by the home, and if someone were to try, they'd let a free know somehow the moment it began, not after letting it drag out until awkward questions get asked.

I am going to agree with Dalamar on this one...plus the girl needs to know not to give out personal information to those she does not know...

Dalamar makes a good point. This most definitely counts as some kind of demerit, and the free person what made the oopsie should be guided away from this choice when faced with it in the future. Nothing like a good old fashioned bit of corporal punishment to drive home the kind of dumbs that do and don't fly. This is one of those dumbs of the flightless variety, evolved from great dumbnosaurs that once scraped a living in dumbterreanean habitats. Don't do this dumb.