to me being in a collar reminds me i am slave and that i should do everything in my power to please...even if i don’t understand the why behind doing it...even if i don’t want to do it…i should do it...i should trust that my Master will keep me safe and that there is a reason behind the things i am made to do

it means that i will be able to experience the feelings i wish to have of being small and helpless and dependant on someone strong and Masterful...that i will be made to obey when i really don't want to...that i do not have control of myself now that i am being controled by my Master and i must turn over to  him  all control over everything no matter how big or small it is

because i am always learning...i need to count on him to do what you tell me because he trying to keep me safe and to help me learn and i need to also count on the others of the Home to help guide me the way she knows my Master would want me trained

 i am truly a slave...heart....mind...body and soul...and my Master will be the one that teaches me about myself...he will help me learn to understand myself...to understand the desires i have and to find out if those desires are right for me and to not be embarrassed about having them...to help me grow and be comfortable with the things he shows me...to push me to try things i want to try but am afraid to...maybe even to push me to try things i don’t want to try if it what he wishes

having a collar his personal collar around my throat...and for he that places that collar around my throat...it means we have a commitment to each other...my part being a commitment in pleasing my Master all the time and in all ways...he should be committed to helping me grow...to keep me safe even if he has to keep me safe from myself...rom my fears and from my self denials

all Masters that collar someone should have the patience...desire...knowledge and strength to help guide the ones they collar...and if that one is new to having a Master then he should know that those strengths may have to be twofold

      all those that wish to have the collar around them should be happy in their submissive nature and should have the desire to let that submissiveness be freed towards the one that collars them...both should have the desire to learn and grow with each other and both should find happiness and contentment it the relationship

now i am in his personal collar....my commitment Master is to try my best to always please you

my commitment to myself is to try my best to always please you...so that i may learn and grow