I have seen the blogs well not read all of them but seen enough to know that I am going to not try to defend myself or others who might feel as I do nor will I  post vindictive things against others because that is not the kind of person I am. I prefer to deal with things in private in an adult way but it is not for me to choose how others deal with their issues.  I refuse to engage in drama for attention and likes on posts. Friendships have ended, people have been blocked and no I am not happy about that but life must go on, sometimes without some of the people I thought would always be there. I feel some sadness and disappointment but I don't feel hate. Life is much too short for that. All I can do is to continue to focus on what I enjoy and what I know others enjoy. Thank you to those who take the time to read my stories, it means a lot to me that they are being appreciated and I will continue to post stories for as long as my muse lets me.

The one thing no one ever talks about is the pain that it leaves behind or how you are supposed to move on from it. I am trying, every day I am trying even when I just want to pack up and disappear.

I do wish them all the best and I hope they find the happiness they seek...I found my peace and that is enough. 

Thank you for the lessons you taught me:

   1. How to stand on my own

  2. Knowing my own worth

  3. Learning what I don't want or need in my life

  4. Do what makes me happy

  5. Most important, I don't need to post blogs, drama or otherwise to validate myself.