~Sadistic_Goddess~

About Me

We are not bedroom bdsm people. I don't just dominate him in bed. In all parts of his life I rule. I am paramount in his mind AT ALL TIMES. We do this year round/ 24/7, no breaks, no time outs, no way out.

People are so pedantic. I guess so am I. I enjoy ritual, and protocol. I like knowing what I shall do the day after tomorrow. I enjoy micro managing. I enjoy leading. I take pleasure. I give pleasure and pain. I am dominant, both within the bedroom and out in my day to day life. I own one boy. He is perfection....the ultimate compliment to my personality.

You may not understand BDSM. You may discount it. But it takes a moment to keep your opinion to yourself. Spouting off to me about how its, wrong, immoral, disgusting does NOTHING to change my mind. It shows others exactly how petty YOU are. I DISLIKE passive agressive people. I mean if you have a problem, go on and tell me straight out. Don't dance around the topic or make thinly veiled comments in the main chatroom. It makes YOU look the fool, not I.

 I do not tolerate ignorance, and dislike people whom try to act differently then they really are. I mean if you are a middle aged man with a beer belly, tell Me, don't try to lie and act like you are fitter then you are. I will find out! I am real!  I expect you to be. Even if its not the most attractive option, I want REAL

I am not into 50 shades of grey. Thats a sci-fi version of BDSM, much like Gor. Don't get me wrong if your into that, all the power to you.

I am interested in protocol. I enjoy high tea with a beautiful submissive boy serving me my tea and cookie. I enjoy submissives who know their role, and don't have to be told over and over again how to behave. I am an adult I expect YOU to act like one too. I don't punish by doing things you might enjoy, so if you think "Hey I'll misbehave so she'll paddle me" you've got the wrong idea all together. Instead you may find yourself scrubbing the bathroom floor with a toothbrush in your mouth.

Writing, learning and reading about this grand lifestyle! I recently shut my blog down and moved alot of my writing to fetlife. I just don't have time for it anymore. I am an avid writer when I have the time, and am pretty open to any type of discussion about BDSM.

I am open to discussion NOT SCENING! I don't do that online. If you are one of those "Oh yeah type you'll whip my ass" types please go elsewhere. There are plenty of others who are open to that type of play. I'm not one of them. Unless you can physically be under my crop, leave me alone. Thanks.

Interests:

pony play, sensation play, medical scenes, cbt, trampling, smothering, ect ect, this list could go on forever.

I want an incisive, inquisitive, insightful, irreverent mind. I want someone for whom philosophical discussion is foreplay. I want someone who sometimes makes me go ouch due to their wit and evil sense of humor. I have decided I am a sapiosexual.

Quotes

And now here is my secret, a very simple secret: It is only with the heart that one can see rightly; what is essential is invisible to the eye.” “What is essential is invisible to the eye,” the little prince repeated, so that he would be sure to remember. “It is the time you have wasted for your rose that makes your rose so important.” “It is the time I have wasted for my rose–” said the little prince, so that he would be sure to remember. “Men have forgotten this truth,” said the fox. “But you must not forget it. You become responsible, forever, for what you have tamed. You are responsible for your rose . . .” “I am responsible for my rose,” the little prince repeated, so that he would be sure to remember. Quote from the book “The little Prince” by Antoine de Saint Exupry

Humiliation and beatings are like chocolate and cheesecake. You can't have one without the other. Quote by Me

From this arises an argument: whether it is better to be loved than feared. I reply that one should like to be both one and the other; but since it is difficult to join them together, it is much safer to be feared than to be loved when one of the two must be lacking.-Machiavelli

So long as man remains free he strives for nothing so incessantly and so painfully as to find some one to worship.”-Dostoevsky

Behold, earthshaking inventions which are useless or obsolete within the same century-- the steamboat, the railroads, yet do you know what these meant after six thousand years of galleyslaves and men on horseback? And now the dance hall girl buys a chemical to kill the seed of her lovers, and lives to be seventy-five in a room full of gadgets that cool the air and veritably eat the dust. And yet for all the costume movies and the paperback history thrown at you in every drugstore, the public has no accurate memory of anything, every social problem is observed in relation to 'norms' which in fact never existed, people fancy themselves deprived of luxuries and peace and quiet which in fact were never common to any people anywhere at all."- Anne Rice Queen of the Damned

Masturbation is not a hobby.....just so you know. Its a preoccupation Quote by Me

I am sapiosexual. Google it. Its worth it!