little_pett

About Me
I am a 44 year old female submissive i have 5 children none of them living at home..I have a wide variety of interests both in kink and outside of it. I enjoy impact play (belts, paddles, floggers, canes) and light bondage. Also, kink is sexual for me. But I do know the difference between play and punishment and act accordinglyI have often been asked What I want in a Dominant, Well there are many things so bare with me, as I sort threw my mind, and try to put it in decent order. I feel that the one thing a Dom must be is consistent. It is a very hard trait to find. Let me explain what consistent means to me. It means, when a rule is set down, it is carved in stone. That rule should not be altered or changed, And the consequence of that rule being broken, should be one fitting to the injustice. That punishments should only be put off or delayed, because of a life threatening incident. That any schedules made, should be followed except in the case of illness, or the sickness, or death of close family. A Dom should be able to stand by his word. As a Dom should be consistent in the training and maintaining of his submissive/slave, he should also be just as consistent in the rewarding of his submissive/slave. Positive reinforcement equals positive behavior. I feel that a Dom must be strict, and demanding, but, also understanding and loving. A Dom must not ever, Punish a submissive/slave while angry, or under the influence of any mood altering drug. He must be fair in the dealing with his submissive/slave, He should be willing to hear her side of things, with the understanding that no matter how she/he feels. The Dominant has the last word . He should rule with and Iron fist, and love with the depths of his heart. Among all of those things a Dom should also be a teacher and a strong leader. I know this is at its best unrealistic, but it is my idea of what I would want in the perfect Dom.